My Madelyn woke up this morning and stated that snow hated her and that it was meant for January, not MAY! She very emphatically stated that she was ready for Summer; she's not alone in that sentiment.
Like one of my followers (and friends) said this morning, "It's May, time for @thepinkteapot to blog..."
I appreciate being missed. I didn't realize it had been a month since I last posted, but it's been a crazy month with Spring break, family issues, and just LIFE.
I am excited for the warm weather, for the pool to be opened (hopefully this week...sans snow), and for the kids to be out of school (although I don't know that I am as excited as they are).
My next segment for KSL has to do with Summer and family. I am curious and will be asking for input on my FB fan page.
I am dancing around a subject here, actually running away from it. I find this blog to be cathartic in many ways and feel that this is a venue where I may share whatever I deem appropriate.
I will not go into details for privacy's sake...but suffice it to say that I had a health scare with someone close to me. My initial reaction (before going to be by their side in another state) was to post something simple on FB asking for prayers. I believe in the power of prayer.
Five minutes later I got a call from someone else close to this person (but with no greater say in caring for or nurturing this person) telling me to take down the post, it was too private and/or too soon to say anything. I respect and love this person and did what was asked. After, not very long after, I consulted my wise husband. He told me that in this case, prayers and a general note was in order (and he's never on FB and is very private). I felt the same way; power in numbers. Blessings came from that five minutes and I believe this loved one was helped and blessed in part due to my gift of over-sharing.
The part I resented was being told what I could and could not post on FB that directly affects my life. Other people's business is other people's business- but this was mine. I ended up asking the loved one who was ill if they had a problem with my post; they did not at all and appreciated the effort.
Instead of being angry that perhaps some micromanaging had taken place (and some dominion that was unnecessary and inappropriate), I had allowed it.
I shortly after that chose to assert myself and let that person know how I felt about things like that in general. In this particular case, my FB rule still applies: if you wouldn't tell it to an acquaintance, don't tell it on FB. This is something I would tell an acquaintance, and have, and since I'm the etiquette blogger (although not an expert)- I might know what I'm talking about sometimes. I still have the right to be my own person and make my own decisions as an adult and be treated with respect.
Taking down that post was frustrating and I felt belittled and scolded. I chose to feel that way. No one can make me feel inferior without my consent; and I gave it.
In the end, I will remember to stand up for what I believe is right, regardless of what others may say or do; that's integrity and courage. It's important to remind ourselves that we have those qualities or the potential to develop them as we strive to stand our ground. We need not be aggressive, but being assertive is the right thing to do. I have enough passive agressive people in my life...I won't be another one.