con·ver·sa·tion
ˌkänvərˈsāSHən/
noun
- the informal exchange of ideas by spoken words.
I recently chatted with Brooke Walker from KSL's Studio 5 while she was on KBYU radio (also Sirius XM radio channel 143) filling in for Matt Townsend. It was fun to chat with her (love her and consider her a friend) and it's also led to an invitation to come chat with Matt on a regular basis to discuss manners and etiquette; I even got a real phone call with a question (other than the one from my mother-she's so cute). To the point, my chat with Brooke was about the art of conversation and how to keep it going or start it without being superficial or too deep.
Here's what we talked about:
1. Be genuinely interested in the person to whom you are speaking
- no matter what you're asking, make sure are sincere and that will be perceived hopefully by the other party.
- After you are asked a question about yourself, answer it and then perhaps ask a question back to show interest in the other person.
- it's always great to talk about interesting things going on in the world such as politics or religion, but these topics can often be personal and even volatile at times. Try to be your real self while keeping the focus on neutral topics such as career, traveling, etc.
- If something comes up that creates a divide or where you don't see eye to eye with the other person, build on some point of commonality, finding the positive in their response.
Conversations are a basic human interaction that can feed or drain us. Even for those introverts out there, it can be an interesting experience and you never know what you can learn in just a few minutes with someone, and perhaps you made their day or they made yours...or better yet, both.
It was a blast to have such a casual forum in which to speak and not be pressed for time. I love doing segments on Studio 5, this was just different, and a nice change.
I hope this helps you feel more comfortable starting a conversation or helps you keep those awkward moments during a convo to a minimum.
Have a great week.
Janine
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